In my humble efforts to provide tourist etiquette tips, the one I repeatedly come back to is to learning the local language of the country you are visiting, or at least attempt to communicate in that language. Communication is key in life and even more so when traveling abroad. Here is but one of my stories on why you should learn a language for travel to improve your solo travel over 50 trip.
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A Little Italiano Goes a Long Way
I was with a traveling companion in Europe for many weeks. We had spent some amazing days in Santorini, Greece. On our way back to IItaly from Greece via ferry we docked in the southern town of Bari, which held a tiny train station. Holding Eurail passes, the train was the only way for us to get to Rome.
There was one, elderly man working the station’s ticket booth facing a line of fellow ferry tourists us also wanting to obtain a train schedule for their destination.
This was 1995. There was no internet. You more than likely didn’t have access to the train schedule until you got to the train station. Even then, you had to read the schedules in Italian.
The ticket line moved very slowly. The closer we got to the ticket booth, I noticed tourists walking away confused or upset. Almost next, I could hear the tourists talking to the ticket man. In English. I could also ascertain why they were getting upset. They couldn’t understand the ticket man. They didn’t speak Italian.
Inevitably, they spent a lot of time in a line to walk away frustrated with no train information.
This scene repeated itself until I could really hear it play out well with the one remaining tourist ahead of us. With a good view to the show, I watched this tourist walk up to the booth, ask the ticket booth man for train schedule details for his destination, entirely in English. The ticket booth man spoke back to him. I don’t know what he said, because he spoke Italian, of course.
The tourist repeated his questions trying different phrases, yet still in English. The Italian station attendant appeared to look irritated as he repeated himself. Eventually frustrated, the tourist gave up, like all of those before him, and went off to find his group to, probably, find a Plan B.
It was finally our turn. What does my traveling companion do? She started speaking English to the station attendant. I thought, “Was I the only one who’d been paying attention to the trend of previous results?” I also thought how I didn’t want to have spent almost an hour in line to walk away empty handed.
I do not care to spend time in lines. Unfortunately, our travel lives are full of lines so we just have to deal. But I digress…
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An Ounce of Foreign Language Effort Rewarded
To avoid wasting our opportunity, with my companion in mid-sentence, I gently nudged her aside.
Full disclosure: I know no Italian except for basics like, “buongiorno”, “grazie”, “quanto”, “dové il bagno”, etc. I took 4 years of Spanish in high school, but sometimes you just have to go for it.
I looked at the man, smiled big and, in my Spanish-ish-Italian, said something like, “Scusa. Es necessario a Roma. Que tren numero a Roma y a que tiempo?” Yes, I sounded like a complete idiot.
Yes, he clearly knew I didn’t speak Italian. Nonetheless, he looked at me, put his pen down, and spun the train schedule booklet in front of him to face me.
Speaking slowly in Italian, he pointed to the schedule’s train platform column, then pointed outside to the actual platform. He moved his finger over the schedule to the train number and the departure time. He looked at me for comprehension. I repeated it back to him. He said, “Si”.
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My pitiful, “Es necessario a cambio trens?” came back with his, “No”. My last, “A que hora arrivé a Roma?”, resulted in him writing down the arrival time for me. I smiled with a, “Grazie!”. He genuinely smiled back with, “Prego”. Success!
I will never forget this interaction, not just because it helped me, but because I cannot help think the station attendant also felt satisfied he helped someone while being respected in his own country. His home. Its lasting impression comes with me on all of my travels. Has any of this made an impression on you?
Why Learn a Language with Today’s Technology?
Even with online language courses, language learning apps (like Duolingo and Babbel), or translation apps (like Google Translate), at our fingertips, it’s possible you could be in a situation where you cannot access it due to no WiFi, for example.
Making the effort to learn a new language for travel – even just basic words and phrases – can be an invaluable back up, especially in an emergency situation as a solo traveler. It also breaks barriers, as I’ve hopefully impressed upon above.
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Why not try one the popular language apps and courses for your upcoming solo travel over 50? Some offer free trials. You may find yourself becoming fluent. How wonderful.
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